I hate them. So much.
I saw this debate going on over whether 'The Tyrant Falls in Love' has rape in it or not, and HELLO, the guy is drugged. That's as clear cut as it gets. And then the seme uses the threat of leaving to bargain sex from the uke. I know that's addressed later, but anyone who doesn't know emotional blackmail is wrong shouldn't be given a second chance, and that's ignoring the fact that he's still a RAPIST.
I hate Viewfinder even more. I read it awhile ago, so specific complaints have been forgotten, but I do remember it begins with the seme raping the uke in some type of bdsm sex swing :| And their relationship...man, there is absolutely no love at all. It's just the seme wanting to own the uke for sex.
Yaoi has just been seeming very violent to me lately. The seme always just goes forward with penetration, always to the uke's discomfort and rarely with his permission. Ugh. And it's just not romantic at all. Because it implies that the seme's priority is his own enjoyment above all, and who cares if the uke is hurting. I understand that that is supposed to go into the seme being the dominating, possessive side of the couple, but it's starting to grate :|